// Purposely Catholic Presents

Sacramental
Masculinity

A Field Guide for the Fight for Faith

A men's evening rooted in Scripture, the sacramental life of the Church, and the kind of brotherhood that actually holds. Built for your parish. Ready to deploy.

Most men are fighting hard — just in the wrong arena. They're building careers, chasing prestige, numbing out — and somewhere along the way the sacraments became obligations instead of operational fuel.

Sacramental Masculinity is a men's evening that resets the mission. Through Baptism, Confirmation, Confession, and the Eucharist, men rediscover what they were made for — and leave with a concrete 30-day plan to live it out.

Available for single-night parish events, men's retreats, and multi-session parish missions. Bring Khalil and Bobby to your parish, and send your men into the arena equipped.

Sacramental Masculinity event in a parish church
Men gathering in conversation after the event

// From the Field

The Arena Is
Already Full.
Is Your Parish In It?

The Field Guide

Rooted in the Sacraments

Baptism, Confirmation, Confession, Eucharist — not as obligations, but as operational fuel for holy fatherhood and Christian brotherhood.

Authentic Catholic Masculinity

Beyond the culture's false choices. The Sacramental Man is neither passive nor toxic — crucified strength: Lion and Lamb integrated.

Brotherhood That Holds

The Phalanx model: a formation of men who know each other's blind spots and fight together. Philia — not just acquaintance.

Actionable 30-Day Deployment

Men leave with a concrete field plan. Daily, weekly, and monthly commitments that anchor the morning, name the battle, and build the brotherhood.

Interior Battle Training

Naming concupiscence, understanding the three enemies of the soul, and building asceticism — without moralism or guilt trips.

Khalil Hattar and Bobby Fredericksen — Purposely Catholic Podcast hosts

Bobby Fredericksen & Khalil Hattar

// Hosts · Purposely Catholic Podcast

The world doesn't need softer men.
And it doesn't need harsher men.
It needs holy men.
Step into the arena.

// Sacramental Masculinity · Closing Call to Action

Meet Khalil & Bobby

Khalil Hattar

// Pastoral Associate & Speaker

Khalil Hattar

STB

Co-host of the Purposely Catholic podcast and speaker on Catholic formation, parish leadership, and men's discipleship. Drawing on his experience as a Pastoral Associate, Khalil grounds his teaching in salvation history and covenantal theology, naming hard truths with clarity and conviction.

Bobby Fredericksen

// Speaker & Author

Bobby Fredericksen

Co-host of the Purposely Catholic podcast and men's ministry speaker. Bobby brings practical discipleship insight and a pastoral heart to the Sacramental Masculinity framework — meeting men where they are and pointing them toward the arena they were made for.

Scripture at the Core

Sacramental Masculinity is not motivational content. It's a theological framework grounded in the Word — and it doesn't let men leave without an encounter.

// 1 Cor 11:1

"Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ."

The standard that frames the whole evening.

// Gal 2:20

"I have been crucified with Christ."

The integration of Lion and Lamb — crucified strength.

// Mark 2:4–5

Four men who tore through a roof to lower their brother to Jesus.

The Phalanx. Brotherhood that costs something.

// Eph 5:25

"Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church."

The vocation of the Sacramental Man in full.

// Prov 27:17

"Iron sharpens iron."

The case for brotherhood built on Philia, not proximity.

// Matt 16:26

"What will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul?"

The counterfeit loadout. The wrong arena named.

Book This Evening
for Your Parish

Bring Khalil and Bobby to your parish for a powerful men's evening rooted in the sacramental life of the Church. Formatted for parishes of any size — single-night events, men's retreats, and multi-session parish missions.

Single-Night Parish Event
Men's Retreat — Half-Day or Full-Day
Multi-Session Parish Mission

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